Tips, Tidbits and Folklore

Saturday, November 13, 2004

"Baby what a big surprise" -- Chicago

Well, I arrived in Cincinnati this afternoon for my surprise visit!

I had not told my parents that I was coming and knew that they had reservations for a late lunch/early dinner with some friends, so that was where I showed up with my sister in law and niece who picked me up at the airport.

The look on my mom's face was priceless. My niece took a video of our arrival:
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Thursday, November 11, 2004

"I'm leaving on a jet plane...." Peter, Paul and Mary

I found a $150 airfare to Cincinnati for this weekend so I am leaving Saturday morning to surprise my mom and dad for my birthday. I LOVE surprises!

My parents love to call me when they are at some of my favorite restaurants and ask me what I want from there -- on Saturday afternoon I know they are meeting friends for a late lunch, so I'll call THEM and ask them to order me a soup and salad and then walk up to the table and demand my lunch. :) LOL

I love my sister-in-law for being able to pick me up a the airport and get me to the
restaurant.

Since it's Thursday night, I'll be heading to Happy Hour at Santorini's Mediterranean Grill; one of my favorite local places. I can taste the gyro now...yum..

Speaking of yum, it's 12:03 and I'm hungry for lunch and will have to go get dressed, head out and see what I can find to put in my belly.

Saturday, November 06, 2004

"WAR..what is it good for..."

This was written by Clarissa after the start of the war in Iraq, but the words as just a appropriate now.

We Were Made for These Times

by Clarissa Pinkola Estes

My friends, do not lose heart. We were made for these times.

I have heard from so many recently who are deeply and properly bewildered. They are concerned about the state of affairs in our world right now. Ours is a time of almost daily astonishment and often righteous rage over the latest degradations of what matters most to civilized, visionary people.

You are right in your assessments. The lustre and hubris some have aspired to while endorsing acts so heinous against children, elders, everyday people, the poor, the unguarded, the helpless, is breathtaking.

Yet, I urge you, ask you, gentle you, to please not spend your spirit dry by bewailing these difficult times. Especially do not lose hope. Most particularly
because, the fact is that we were made for these times. Yes. For years, we have been learning, practicing, been in training for and just waiting to meet on this exact plain of engagement.

I grew up on the Great Lakes and recognize a seaworthy vessel when I see one. Regarding awakened souls, there have never been more able vessels in the waters than
there are right now across the world. And they are fully provisioned and able to signal one another as never before in the history of humankind.

Look out over the prow; there are millions of boats of righteous souls on the waters with you. Even though your veneers may shiver from every wave in this stormy
roil, I assure you that the long timbers composing your prow and rudder come from a greater forest. That long-grained lumber is known to withstand storms, to hold together, to hold its own, and to advance, regardless.

In any dark time, there is a tendency to veer toward fainting over how much is wrong or unmended in the world. Do not focus on that.

There is a tendency too to fall into being weakened by dwelling on what is outside your reach, by what cannot yet be. Do not focus there. That is spending the wind
without raising the sails. We are needed, that is all we can know. And though we meet resistance, we more so will meet great souls who will hail us, love us and
guide us, and we will know them when they appear.

Didn't you say you were a believer? Didn't you say you pledged to listen to a voice greater? Didn't you ask for grace? Don't you remember that to be in grace means to submit to the voice greater?...

Ours is not the task of fixing the entire world all at once, but of stretching out to mend the part of the world that is within our reach. Any small, calm thing
that one soul can do to help another soul, to assist some portion of this poor suffering world, will help immensely.

It is not given to us to know which acts or by whom, will cause the critical mass to tip toward an enduring good. What is needed for dramatic change is an
accumulation of acts, adding, adding to, adding more, continuing.

We know that it does not take "everyone on Earth" to bring justice and peace, but only a small, determined group who will not give up during the first, second, or hundredth gale.

One of the most calming and powerful actions you can do to intervene in a stormy world is to stand up and show your soul. Soul on deck shines like gold in dark
times. The light of the soul throws sparks, can send up flares, builds signal fires, causes proper matters to catch fire.

To display the lantern of soul in shadowy times like these - to be fierce and to show mercy toward others, both, are acts of immense bravery and greatest necessity. Struggling souls catch light from other souls who are fully lit and willing to show it.

If you would help to calm the tumult, this is one of the strongest things you can do. There will always be times when you feel discouraged.

I too have felt despair many times in my life, but I do not keep a chair for it; I will not entertain it. It is not allowed to eat from my plate.

The reason is this: In my uttermost bones I know something, as do you. It is that there can be no despair when you remember why you came to Earth, who you serve, and who sent you here.

The good words we say and the good deeds we do are not ours: They are the words and deeds of the One who brought us here.

In that spirit, I hope you will write this on your wall: When a great ship is in harbor and moored, it is safe, there can be no doubt. But that is not what great ships are built for. This comes with much love and a prayer that you remember who you came from, and why you came to this beautiful, needful Earth.

Clarissa Pinkola Estes, Ph.D

Friday, November 05, 2004

Movie: Eternal Sunshine

I just saw this movie and it tugged at me in such an odd way....if you haven't seen it, do -- immediately.

It reaffirms my belief that some things are meant to be and some people are destined to be in your life forever -- no matter what. I am lucky to have always found that person, my love, my life, my soul, my husband.


...sigh...